May I present Exhibit A:
Actually, don't ignore the dorky smile, because it's very important. You see, I'm happy this way. I'm comfortable. I can crawl around on the floor crashing cars with Miles. I can go downstairs and work on craft projects. I can clean the kitchen, or deal with a blow-out diaper, or add some grass stains while playing soccer with my son. Whatever my crazy-busy, upside-down world throws at me, I can deal. Without having to change clothes.
And if that makes me 'frumpy', then so be it. I have better things to worry about.